I met up with my polytechnic mates last night. It has been so long since I last saw them. Usually we meet up at least one a year during Chinese New Year but I missed the session last year. It was such an enjoyable session and I am glad I went. There were so much jokes and I laughed til I felt my cheeks flushed red.
The girls brought their boyfriends whom some I’ve seen for the first time. And the session somehow ended up persuading the boyfriends to propose and get married. It went on and on and on… Til I dreamt of getting married myself last night. ORZ
I dreamt of myself making a move on someone, whom I shall not name, and got married at lightning of speed. The groom is not someone I like, and has wife and children in reality. Anyway the night I got married, I was looking at the photographs of people attending the wedding and everyone looked unhappy. There was even a caption at the bottom of the photo stating the guests look “sour”. I somehow took it as a sign and immediately regretted my decision on getting married to this guy. I wanted to void this marriage and turn to my parents to discuss with them. In my dream, I was so close to running away from this man.
To dream of a marriage signifies commitment, harmony or transitions. You are undergoing an important developmental phase in your life. The dream may also represent the unification of formerly separate or opposite aspects of yourself. In particular, it is the union of masculine or feminine aspects of yourself. Consider the qualities and characteristics of the person that you are marrying. These are the qualities that you need to look at incorporating within yourself.
To dream that you are planning a wedding to someone you never met is a metaphor symbolizing the union of your masculine and feminine side. It represents a transitional phase where you are seeking some sort of balance between your aggressive side and emotional side. The dream may also indicate that two previously conflicting aspects are merging together as one.
To dream that you escape from jail or some place of confinement signifies your need to escape from a restrictive situation or attitude. Alternatively, it suggests that you are refusing to face your problems. You are avoiding the situation, instead of confronting them.
Somehow the dream interpretations do reflect what I feel. No, I am definitely not dying to get married as my friend says. (Rolls Eyes) I came across a statement made by an artist on a Korean variety program, Strong Heart, previously. She said: 여자 나이는 서른부터시작하고 생각합니다. It means “I think female age starts from thirty.” This is totally my sentiments right now! Though I am still a few years away from thirty, perhaps now is the time I really should start my engine rolling. My engine that takes me to the future I was looking forward to, and work towards in. 아싸!!!