There has been a post that is very popular with Korean nowadays. It’s called 여자들이싫어하는남자행동. It is translated to the activities guys do that we females dislike. I must assure you some of the activities are truly irritating!!!
When girlfriend says “I’m cold”, the boyfriend echoes “Me too”. You’re a man, I expect you to behave like one. I’m not saying guys shouldn’t feel the chill too. It is rather when girlfriends express they are cold, they expect the boyfriends to cuddle them and shield them from the chilliness with their manly bodies. If the boyfriends also express they are cold, the direction of conversation will probably turn towards “Lets move to somewhere warm now”. Unromantic to the max… … …
Guys who always say they have nothing in particular they want to eat but give a lot of ideas and suggestions. I’m trying to inject some positivity here using “ideas and suggestions” but the original text didn’t really imply such. Anyway I always believe that if you have so much ideas, then give a suggestion of place to eat. Don’t keep criticizing every suggestions we come up with, then say “I’m fine with this too.” No, if you’re really fine with it, you will keep those criticism to yourself.
Guys who keep staring at every woman that walks past them. Seriously, are you a woman radar detector? Can’t you see me standing beside you? That woman you just turned your head for wasn’t even pretty! Look at me!
Need I say more?
Guys who wouldn’t say “I miss you” unless girlfriend says it first. Is this an indication of a male-chauvinist boyfriend? Why do we have to be so calculative being in a relationship? Saying it first doesn’t necessarily means I love you more, or I miss you more. This is not a game either. Saying it first doesn’t mean one loses. So what is the mentality here?!
Guys who doesn’t initiate contact and only respond when girlfriends made contact. I don’t really get this either. The only reasonable explanation I can think of, is that boyfriend is afraid of disturbing the girlfriend. Yet everyone enjoys picking up the phone randomly and seeing your partner sending you a message, indicating he/she thought of you. The content of the message doesn’t really matter. It is the thought. So guys, stop being such a whiny calculative person. Pick up your phone and send a message to her NOW!
In the middle of a conversation, guys who keep quiet if the girlfriends stop talking. Frankly speaking, I am quite fine with this. I am a person who enjoys peace and quiet. I will feel comforted knowing the person I care is beside me, listening to what I’m listening, looking at what I’m looking. I even enjoy the quiet between two people when we’re on the phone, listening to each other people breathing. Weird I know XD
Guys not whole heartedly talking with girlfriends, being distracted talking with other people at the same time. I agree with this!!!!!! It doesn’t apply only to boyfriends. I have friends who are engrossed with talking with friends on twitter rather than us human sitting right in front of them. Especially guys who usually have problems multi-tasking, I’d say this act is irritating enough.
Guys who rarely call girlfriends on the phone. I do not like talking on the phone. It’s either messages, or meet me in person. So I can live with this. LOL~
Guys who appear very tired when talking. Anyone wouldn’t like it when the person you are talking to keeps yawning. Is my topic boring you? Or my face is getting boring for you? I certainly am not bringing sleeping bugs out with me. So I’d suggest you go home and get a good sleep. We’ll meet when you’re more refresh and doesn’t look like you’re on drugs.
Guys hurrying to hang up the phone. Do you happen to be in a hurry? Or do you follow a very strict schedule like this guy in OH! Mikey?
I have no idea why I keep watching this series. To be honest, I find it kinda stupid. But when one episode ends, I will instinctively click play for the next episode. This is so freaky XD
Guys who think that girlfriends will like the gifts as long as they’re expensive. Not all girls are superficial. I am sure expensive gifts come with a value and quality that we appreciates and delighted to receive. However handmade and thoughtful gifts goes beyond what any pricey gift can bring us.
Guys who wishes to only receive expensive gifts. Well, we are girlfriends, not ATMs. Where did the idea even come from? (Shrugs) Showering gifts could be an act of love, but it is definitely not the only way to display affection. If the girl doesn’t have the financial capability, this would be too demanding an expectation isn’t it?
This is such a long long article and I’ve only gone through half of it! I think I’ve closed this draft and opened up at least 4 times before I could complete this post. The next post will have to wait… … … Teehee!